Sometimes it takes an overwhelming breakdown to have an undeniable breakthrough. To overcome hurdles we need to believe in ourselves that we can get through it and also by trusting God. Being honest with ourselves about our feelings is also important because recognize what we are dealing can make us  handle our obstacles properly. Sometimes, we fall down when we cross the obstacles. But the important thing is we need to get back up after we fall down. God gives us challenges in life that we need to take for us to become a better version of ourselves.